What's so good about Chaiyaphum anyway?

More photos can be found here.
The sun is about to rise.

 That question was asked by a friend when she knew that I was going there again this month.  And I found myself wondering about it too.  I have been there for four times since December 2009.  The activities I did there were unintentionally different each time.  I guess that's what makes it interesting.

Of course, I went to Wat Pa Sukato as a retreat, a get-away-from-it-all, but I didn't really need to drive 700 km if that were the sole reason.  Though I don't think I could live there indefinitely, I like the lifestyle I have there.  I don't get to be bossy and pampered like when I'm in Bangkok.  I walk everywhere.  I do manual work in the kitchen or help nuns collecting vegetables or fixing some stuff.  I don't touch a notebook computer (as a result, my right upper back was not sore at all).  I barely use a cell phone.  I don't order my staff or my students to do this and that.  I don't have to any planning.  In short, I put my brain on a break while I'm there.

On the mission to collect bamboo shoots
Not only the simple lifestyle that attracts me, but I also like the fact that I need to rely on other people at Sukato.  This time when I went, there were so many visitors that my earlier assigned kuti took up 6 women, me included.   I didn't think one toilet cum bath could accommodate us in a timely manner so I asked Nun Thong-You (pictured with a hat in the photo) if she could let me stay in her kuti.  (Almost all nuns and monks have their own kutis).  I don't generally ask people for favor if I could avoid.  And I find having to depend on other people's mercy helps reducing my ego.  I am such a snob that I'd rather pay my way than having to owe it to others.  But of course, I can't really rent a room at a monastery so I must ask.

Luangpor Khamkhien who makes such a lovely place possible.
Another unusual thing that I did there this time was to help my host fixing her inside wall.  Because my family have our own maintenance guys for our apartments, I don't normally get to do any of these works; I just tell my staff to fix it for me and ASAP too.  (In fact, in Bangkok, I don't do any household chores: no cooking, cleaning or washing.)  But over there, I got to use a hammer and a saw.  I felt like I was being on a Habitat-for-Humanity mission... 

I guess largely I'm a masochist but I just want to be self assured that I'd survive without the comfort that my dad's money has provided.  Not only that, I often run into interesting new people at Sukato.  Or even with people that I have already known, I really do enjoy their company and feel like returning home every time I go there.  It is quite a luxury to have a country home, I find.

Comments

lugerpitt said…
I get something similar in my Red Cross work. Normally when I interact with others professionally it is in the context of a professor (or working in a similarly planning/managing type function). But I also do grunt work (in this case, responding to fires in progress, or cleaning equipment). Last week I was talking to one person on the phone and I mentioned that we were expecting. His comment was that there must be something up because he had just spent the weekend washing vehicles and equipment and there was this other young man from the Red Cross who was also expecting a child around the same time. Without too much trouble, we quickly figured out that I was that person. It did not occur to him that the guy who was getting dirty cleaning equipment could be the same guy who was a researcher.
lugerpitt said…
Oh, when I say something similar, I am referring to the fact that I can go between worlds, one where I take the role of a professional in a fairly comfortable environment and another where I am very closely tied to my physical environment.
jutapi said…
Is this Louis? I was kinda surprised that you read my blog at all. I mean, I'm not girlie but some issues that I find interesting may be too mundane for most people.
lugerpitt said…
This is :-) I pop in every now and then (and take advantage of one of Google's features that let me follow a set of blogs at once).