Ever impermanent me

Writing a blog is kind of ironic.  The fact that anyone can read it means that it's not private.  But there are times that I don't want to be that forthright and thus choose to be oblique about what I say.  This post will be one of them.

I thought it'd be nice if there was someone who understood me, so I didn't have to explain my reasoning or a lack thereof.   If they had to learn about me, I could just give them my diaries and my blog's URL.  Lately, I just realized that information about my past is rather useless as I'm perpetually changing (I suppose everyone is too, but that's not my concern).  It kind of scares me a bit that what I believe to be my self may not exist after all.  If it does, then it can't change so immediately. 

I used to be really dedicated to a person.  What puzzled me was how quickly I've become disenchanted after just one minor blip.  Only one thing that I don't like, and I turn away.  I thought I was loyal and faithful... 

Initially, I refused to admit it and tried to rationalize why I'd changed.  But then, I was like, oh, well, what's the point?   I'm supposed to be an observer, aren't I?

Then, I started to worry about the future.  Does it mean that there will be no one whom I can truly look up to, someone whom I cherish, in every possible way?  Or I just have to accept the fact that loyalty is not my strong area, and even my belief is out of my control.

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